A single girl spent 500,000 yuan to travel to the United States to seek a child through artificial insemination? Such a scene, which seems like it should only appear in a movie, actually happened in 2017!
Being able to come up with 500,000 yuan at once shows that the girl is financially well-off. She owns a car, a house, has savings, and even owns a company. Isn’t this a picture of a successful life?
With these conditions, she wouldn’t have trouble finding a husband, even if she waited until she was forty to find a younger man. However, she chose not to marry and decided to live alone.
So, the question arises: since she chose not to marry, why did she eventually decide to buy sperm from abroad to get pregnant and have a child?
She had her reasons for doing so; one was that she didn’t want to date.
After careful consideration, the woman finally decided to have her own child through in vitro fertilization (IVF).
However, as of now, only five countries worldwide have legalized IVF.
After extensive contacts, the woman reached out to a sperm bank in the United States. However, undergoing IVF is not a simple process.
At the end of 2017, she paid nearly $100,000 in high fees and completed artificial insemination at a hospital in the United States. The sperm donor was an outstanding graduate from a top Ivy League university and had excellent genes from four different countries.
This means that, combined with the woman’s lineage, the child would be of mixed heritage from five countries.
Wow, the most we usually hear about is three-country mixed heritage, and this five-country mix is indeed a first.
While hearing about this five-country mix is quite rare, is IVF really that easy to do?
After going through a period full of doubts and turmoil, the woman’s firm belief once again took over.
She resolved that no matter how much criticism and scolding she faced, she would wholeheartedly do her best as a mother.
In 2018, the woman finally welcomed her first child, a lovely mixed-race girl named Doris, which means "Goddess of the Sea, a gift from the deep sea."
As a five-country mixed-race child, Doris’s appearance combines various excellent genes, making her strikingly attractive and charming.
Starting the journey of motherhood, Doris’s arrival undoubtedly brought new challenges to her life.
However, one thing is certain: as a mother, she is determined to create a happy, joyful, and healthy environment for her daughter’s growth.
As Doris continued to grow,
In 2021, the woman once again embarked on the path of IVF,
And conceived her second child—a lovely little girl named Hatti.
Thus, a small family of three gradually formed. Through careful nurturing and upbringing, it is becoming a little world filled with laughter and love.
Just last year, the woman had thoughts of having a third child. Since the first two children were girls, many netizens speculated that this time it must be a boy. However, this is all speculation; the real answer can only be revealed by herself.
In this era of diversity, the woman’s unique life choices undoubtedly make us feel an unprecedented power of understanding and acceptance.
Through her personal experience, she has demonstrated the diversity of life, teaching us to accept different voices in society with a more open mind.
She has outlined a new possible path for independent women of the new era, worthy of our applause.
However, walking this path is not easy and still requires everyone who pursues their own goals to be full of courage.
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