The power of words is everywhere, and we should be careful with our words, because inappropriate words can hurt not only others, but also ourselves.
Warm words are expressions of love and encouragement, while malicious words can make people feel discouraged.
Therefore, speaking is a learning, a word can make or break things; One sentence can make people cry or laugh; The same words can either offend someone or make them feel grateful to you.
Truly wise people know how to control their words, understand that words are not too much, but reasonable and precise.
Other words are unnecessary and may even be poison to hurt people. Therefore, we must be careful in our words and actions, and think before we speak.
In interpersonal communication, especially need to pay attention to sense of proportion.
Some things, whether to others or to yourself, should never be said.
Among them, the three most hurtful words should be avoided, because if uttered, it may lead to irreversible consequences.
First of all, sarcastic remarks are the most hurtful.
A person's self-esteem is fragile, sarcastic words will hurt the other person's dignity, cause resentment against you.
On the contrary, words of respect and affirmation can really bring a relationship closer.
Second, don't say harsh words easily.
In the heat of the moment, hurtful words are often irreversible and will only lead to more tension in the relationship.
Words often hurt more deeply than physical wounds, so keep calm, respect others, and respect yourself.
Finally, don't complain and vent negativity frequently.
Too much complaining will make people feel bored, and if you are sad, you should choose to share it with someone you trust, rather than complaining.
Therefore, we should learn to restrain our negative emotions and face life with a positive attitude.
In short, the power between words is huge, we should learn to make good use of words, with warm, respectful and understanding words to influence others, to create a beautiful interpersonal relationship.
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