The key to ensuring high-quality family education is to create an environment where children can feel love.
In the family, the mother is usually the core of the family and one of the people who have the most profound impact on the growth of the child.
When I was a child, I always envied the friends around me who were gently cared for by maternal love, and deep down, I felt how happy children were living in such an environment.
For example, when I want my daughter to eat faster, I will remind her in a gentle tone, "Hurry up, otherwise eating cold food will cause stomach pain."
I thought such words could make children listen, but the fact proves that they are not.
The more gently a child is treated, the more picky they become, and they can even pick out crushed salads one by one.
In the end, not only did she not eat much food, but she also blamed me: "I won't eat anymore, there's not even a table full of food that I like to eat." My gentle persuasion encouraged my child's picky eating habits.
In my opinion, a gentle mother should be able to establish an intimate relationship with her child and not be despised.
However, reality tells me that once I become a mother, even the gentlest one may be despised by the child.
Maternal love is sometimes like pastry, with a sweet and fragrant taste, but one should not be too greedy, otherwise it can easily lead to indigestion.
The same goes for a mother's love. The more she puts in, the more pressure the child will feel.
A mother's nagging and concern may not be a form of happiness for a child, but an intangible pressure.
Children who are disobedient and rebellious do not necessarily have low intelligence, but may have their own thoughts and opinions.
Parents need to recognize their children's strengths, which is crucial for their growth.
In addition, parents' love for their children should be to accompany them when they need it, and to let go when they don't need it. This sense of relaxation can promote the development of a good relationship between parents and children.
The integrity and happiness of a family require the efforts of all members, especially the presence of a father, which is crucial.
If the father does not respect the mother, the child is likely to imitate this behavior.
Therefore, fathers should respect and love their mothers at home, so that children can learn the correct attitude and behavior.
True love should be providing companionship when children need it, and giving freedom when they don't need it. The nagging and caring of parents all stem from their love for their children, which is their care and guidance during their growth process.
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